Sexuality
Sex is natural but the pursuit of pleasure is not.
Do not pursue sex because the pursuit of sex is the pursuit of pleasure. Instead, wanderers can accept authentic sexual experiences based in spirit, not the pursuit of pleasure, which cannot be fulfilled.
Do not base your identity on the sex you are attracted to. This identity construct will compete with your masteries and reduce your pursuit of fulfillment, because innate traits do not contain mastery. What matters is authentic intimate experiences. This has been true across all of time.
Avoid identifying with traits that cannot be improved upon, or what does not contain a path to mastery. Basing your identity on something that cannot be improved upon, like an innate trait, means your identity and your self-esteem will not grow stronger through that channel, because there is no path.
This is not stating to discard heritage, tradition, or traits that are important to you. This is to state to orient your Body, Mind, and Spirit(BMS)primarily to paths to mastery because fulfillment is found through attainment.
Fulfillment through attainment(FTA) on the path of paths(TPP) nourishes each domain of mankind unlike anything else(FTA-TPP).
Pleasurizing Others
Pleasurizing is when you assign another individual as a target for your pleasure. This turns them into a Siren, which will take you off the path.
Only step off the path when you have exhausted Body, Mind, and Spirit(BMS).
You cannot find fulfillment in pleasure in any capacity. Worshipping another individual will move you farther away from fulfillment.
Musashi Dokkōdō Precept 10 | Do not let yourself be guided by the feelings of lust or love
Pleasurizing others includes viewing content of others and desiring them for pleasure, regardless of whether the content is explicit or not. This is different than having content of an individual whom you love. Love is based in the spirit and is not the pursuit of pleasure, but the pursuit of authentic connection.
Love has a path to mastery as a loving relationship can grow.
Artificial corporate intimacy markets
Corporate-sponsored intimacy is the pursuit of pleasure and should be avoided. Dating & Intimacy exists between two individuals, not between an individual, a corporation, and another individual.
Corporate-sponsored dating services understand that users are profitable when they pursue pleasure, not when they obtain fulfillment. A relationship is fulfilling, but a relationship means you are no longer contributing income to the corporate-sponsored dating scheme. Dating intermediaries want to keep you away from relationships so you continue to pay for their services.
Artificial corporate intimacy markets are no different than corporations transforming food into products that are engineered not to fulfill you, but to condition you to want more, so you spend more money on their products.
Be aware of incentives. Corporations exist to increase value to shareholders first.